The Sexualization of Early Childhood

The sexualization of children is a worrisome topic. Children should be riding bikes, playing with their friends, and playing with toys. Instead, they are being exposed to images and messages about sex at an early age (Levin & Kilbourne, 2009). I think the sexualization of children confuses them and makes them grow up way too fast. Things are so much different now from when I was a child. I want my own children to be kids as long as possible. I want them to have a childhood, not grow up too fast. 

One example that illustrates the exposure of young children to a highly sexualized environment is social media. Children have access to apps such as Instagram, Facebook, Messenger, Snapchat, and Tik Tok. Not only can they send messages and pictures to others, but they can also view pictures and videos that other people post. They are exposed to dances, challenges, and some children even experience bullying. My oldest son has a cell phone, but I monitor what he does on it. I have an app on my own phone that sends me notifications and asks permissions about apps and websites he is on. 

A second example that illustrates the exposure of young children to a highly sexualized environment is clothing, particularly, clothing for girls. Shorts, dresses, and skirts are becoming shorter, and shirts are becoming more revealing. The message seems to be to dress "sexy" or expose skin. I remember going shopping last spring/summer to get my then 7 year old some new clothes. I had a heck of a time finding shirts that were appropriate for her because they had so many crop tops and thin, little spaghetti strap tank tops! 

A final example that illustrates the exposure of young children to a highly sexualized environment is musicians and their songs and music videos. Some song lyrics can be suggestive. The dancing, clothing, and behavior in some music videos can be inappropriate, especially for a child. Children may imitate what they are seeing, especially if it is one of their favorite singers or bands. 

This could have implications on children's healthy development. Children's sense of self and identity could be impacted because they think this is how they should be and this is normal. It could also impact "children's understanding of gender, sexuality, and relationships" (Levin & Kilbourne, 2009, p. 3). It could affect them socially and mentally. Children could form an unhealthy idea of themselves, others, and the world around them. 

I could respond to these concerns to reduce the negative impact on children by teaching children the importance of being yourself and being true to who you are. I think it is also important for children to have someone they can talk to or confide in about their feelings and questions. This could help to improve their understanding and awareness, as well as their identity. 

Studying this topic this week has raised my awareness of the sexualization of early childhood. There is so much exposure, even in things you would not think of. As a mother of four children, I want them to remain kids and not have to grow up so quickly. I want to protect them and keep them safe. It is scary to realize that they are exposed to so much and the impact it could have on their development. 

References 

Levin, D. E., & Kilbourne, J. (2009). [Introduction]. So sexy so soon: The new sexualized childhood and what parents can do to protect their kids. (pp. 1-8). Ballantine Books. Retrieved from http://dianeelevin.com/sosexysosoon/introduction.pdf